#11: are there identities or experiences that make us uncomfortable? 

Many years ago, I had a parent tell me that one of her concerns for her child was that her tremendous academic growth would mean that she would face a lot of difficulty on the marriage market. At the time, I really struggled with this concern – I thought the parent was thoughtful and reasonable… Continue reading #11: are there identities or experiences that make us uncomfortable? 

what moves do we need to make to embody a both/and mindset? 

#9 was the first in a second unit within my learning love series. The original formulation called this second act, “centring the margins,” inspired by a concept from bell hooks. In this unit, I invite you to slow down enough to see every single student and teacher we work with clearly.  Seeing every person, child… Continue reading what moves do we need to make to embody a both/and mindset? 

what can we do about our blindspots so that we can see and know all our students?

Every school fails some of its students. Competitive independent schools often fail children with learning differences. Large classrooms often fail quieter students or those with social anxiety. Co-ed classrooms often fail girls with low self-esteem. Single-sex schools often fail nonbinary or trans kids. In an ideal world, every student would have access to the school… Continue reading what can we do about our blindspots so that we can see and know all our students?

what makes it challenging to think clearly about urgency and patience?

This is my seventh piece exploring what it means to lead with love. See the other pieces at the links below: #1: learning love: a beginning #2: what does it mean to be love? #3: how do we lead with love through our mistakes? #4: what is wrong with urgency? What is beautiful about patience?… Continue reading what makes it challenging to think clearly about urgency and patience?